Mindfulness at Work
Watching my girls, Maya and Jessie, run and play on the beach makes me live in the moment and fills me with a great sense of joy.
I recently started watching Hulu’s adaptation of the best-selling novel by Margaret Atwood, “The Handmaid’s Tale” (1985). Hulu’s The Handmaid’s Tale has received numerous awards including this year’s Emmy’s. I have been riveted by this television series. I also plan to read the book.
The Handmaid’s Tale takes place in the near future in the dystopia of Gilead located in New England. A fundamentalist Christian totalitarian government has overthrown the United States. Women are stripped of all their rights. Gilead faces environmental disasters and plunging birthrates. In this society the Commanders’ wives are sterile. Therefore healthy fertile women, Handmaids, are forced into sexual servitude to help propagate the population. The novel tells the story of, Offred, one of the Handmaids and her survival in this frightening society. Her goal, to survive and find the daughter that was taken away from her.
This disquieting story resonated with me because I feel that if we don’t remain vigilant versions of a Gilead could become a reality. Some of you may feel that it is unlikely a situation like this could ever happen in the United States. However, as a minority, a woman and a Latina, I am keenly aware of all the effort that has gone into attaining equal rights for the various segments of our society. And although we have made inroads, much remains to be done to support diversity in this country. Also working against progress are the harmful radicalized views of some of our fellow citizens. Venezuela has its own version of Gilead. Venezuela went from being a rich democracy to a dictatorship in 18 years.
I will share with you that I am a spiritual person and not a religious person. I support your right to have your own spiritual beliefs. However I am a fervent believer in separation of Church and State. The chilling truth is that our government does not have a true separation of church and state. It is very difficult for some our government representatives to separate morality from religion. The Judicial branch of our government is a perfect example of how conservative and liberal views may influence interpretation of the law. At the state level, states like Utah have legislation that is heavily influenced by the Mormon religion. Gilead, although a fictional place, does not seem so unlikely when we see the behavior or decisions made by some our leaders.
I highly recommend watching The Handmaid’s Tale. Regardless of your belief system and values, be they conservative or liberal, religious or secular, no one wants to lose their inherent rights. The Handmaid’s Tale is a cautionary tale. We have the civic responsibility to participate in our democracy. I feel it is sometimes very easy to rely on others to run things. We must be diligent in understanding what is happening in our government at local, state, and federal levels. And lastly, we must remain vigilant in furthering equal rights in our society. The Handmaid’s Tale calls for advocacy and activism.
This past August my husband and I helped our youngest daughter move into her college dorm for her freshman year. While we did this, our older son moved by himself into his apartment for his sophomore year. And just like that we were officially “empty nesters”.
When we got home I left to the kennel immediately to pick up our two labs, Maya and Jessie. And thank goodness for them because they fill up an otherwise very empty house. The next day my husband and I were sitting by the pool, enjoying a drink, and perusing though our cookbooks.
Reading cookbooks from our 200+ collection has been a favorite pastime. It is one of the ways we discover new recipes to cook. Feeling a little sad about no longer having the children to cook for, my husband and I were wondering what we were going to do with regard to food. And that is when my husband proposed that we each pick a cookbook and cook our way through it as a fun positive distraction. I raised my glass to that!
So here is the project in a nutshell.
September marked the official beginning of our project. Our first Tapas Friday menu included a delicious puff pastry with roasted tomatoes. We accompanied the pastry with roasted parmesan-crusted zucchini rounds. Both the tomatoes and zucchini were from my husband’s garden. We accompanied our fun foods with wine and movies. The weekend’s meals are highlighted in my other blog: The Kitchen Blackboard. We are very excited with our new project. It certainly has given us new culinary adventures to look forward to and redirected our emotions in a positive way.
Saturday Night’s Spatchcocked Chili-Rubbed Chicken with Avocado Buttermilk dressing, roasted Brussel sprouts and carrots.
“Colombian Eggs” is a family favorite. To our family Colombian eggs are scrambled eggs done in a specific way. Instead of scrambling the eggs ahead of time and then cooking them, we make our Colombian eggs by heating up the pan, cracking the egg(s) into the pan, and then scrambling them as they cook. Our family enjoys two versions of Colombian eggs.
In Colombia you would eat your eggs with an arepa. An arepa is a patty made with ground maize dough. I accompany my Colombian Eggs with whatever is handy.
Maya has a favorite ball. It’s an old soccer ball that once belonged to our children. We discovered many years ago that Maya loved playing fetch with this particular ball. The ball is now worn and deflated, but it is still Maya’s favorite. We store it in the garage in a bin on a shelf. Once in a while, Maya re-discovers her favorite ball and stands by it, whimpering until a human gets it for her. Maya is older and slower now but when she sees her favorite ball she is a puppy again. Her enthusiasm is infectious!
In case you were unaware there was a 5th Beatle member see picture below.
Today, I came across this picture that I took with the boys. It made me laugh and today I needed some cheering up. “In My Life”, I am turning to humor to get me through the “Long and Winding Road Ahead”. The recent “Helter Skelter” of our “Tax Man” is making me scream “Help”. Hopefully, “We Can Work It Out” and “Come Together” with a “Little Help From My Friends”.
Today we are celebrating our dog, Maya’s, 10th birthday. She was named Maya after the Maya Indians of Mexico who were the first to make chocolate with the cacao bean and Maya is a chocolate lab.
When we brought her home in May of 2007 …
The early years…
All grown up…
The London years…
Her working years…
Her big sister years…
Happy Birthday to our beautiful girl Maya!
May we enjoy many more wonderful years together!
Everyday with you is a celebration!